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Expectation is the root of all heartaches

 People have all sorts of expectations from others, they start to expect as soon as they establish some sort of relationship with them. It is in human nature that human beings cannot live in isolation and their happiness is dependent on other’s conduct. The two most common types of expectations are ; the post graduate expectations and the romantic expectations.

Post graduate expectations

As soon as he steps into an undergraduate program, it is expected that a person will easily find a job at its conclusion. His parents and his close associates believe that he will surely get a job, regardless of the prevailing slump in the job market. Throughout the course of his graduation he is treated with a very civilized manner. But after graduation if he fails to get a proper job then he has to listen to very degrading remarks and has to bear this psychological warfare with perseverance. It is very difficult to fight at the home front as a person expects it to be his safe frontier, but sometimes he has to fight the most fierce battle here. The best way to resist is to maintain silence as it is the only weapon that can be employed in this war. Silence will ensure a safe and long lasting victory on the home front.

Love

There are certain paranormal happenings that cannot be explained. The dynamics of love also lie in this region. Love is a strong and the most valuable human feeling. But if it is unilateral, then it is conducive to many insane adventures.

When a person loves someone he expects his beloved ones to replicate the same feelings for him, but if his beloved person does not love him, he gets hurt and acts paranormally. At first he fails to understand what has happened to him as all his expectations from his beloved persons have been shattered like a glass, he weeps and weeps for several days and starts to behave in an abnormal manner.

Then after a while he becomes very sociophobic, he avoids public discussions , he speaks very less and creates his own virtual world in his mind where he seeks inner peace. But this inner peace is not achieved until he finds his real love or partner whose presence is the real essence of the inner peace.

To conclude with one must not expect too much from the people as mostly they cannot come up to one's expectations

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